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What is Ceremony?
By WolfSpirit

Hi SL

I wanted to ask you all what you understand by the term Ceremony? I have always assumed this word to mean something very grandiose and not for someone as far down the spiritual food chain as myself. But whilst Ii was staying with Mouse, I would often find myself walking up and down her back lawn, always in the same place. Then one night I felt a real sense of Joy and stood on that line with my arms outstretched thanking Creator for all the gifts I had received. Ok it was dark so none of Mouse's neighbors could see me (I hope! ). Then when I got to Washington, SEDD had a little book about Ceremonies that she bought at the Airport whilst waiting for my flight to come in. I read a couple of pages whilst I was with SEDD and thought "interesting". When I was leaving Washington, I walked straight to that book in the first shop I visited at the airport, and SEDD had not told me where she bought it! So, I figured I needed to learn about Ceremony, and read that book in Toronto. It taught me a lot. So I wanted to ask you all what Ceremony means to you? I don't want to look at individual Ceremonies (i.e. Solstice Ceremonies etc.), just what "Ceremony" means to you?

SilverEagleDreamDancer:
I'm still laughing about that BTW. To me, ceremony, when I do it at all, helps me narrow and clear my focus for whatever it is Spirit is leading me through. But it's never about whether I have the 'right' colored candle or stand on my head facing north LOL. It's just the things I do to honor myself and find a deeper tuning to the universe than the waking work-a-day consciousness.

WolfSpirit:
“But it's never about whether I have the 'right' colored candle or stand on my head facing north LOL”

This is what I was getting at when I said about me never thinking I could do Ceremonies.

CinnamonMoon:
Personally ceremony to me is a ritualized focus to direct energy or honor something, someone, or my path. There are healing ceremonies...serious recipes for bringing in and directing healing energies. There are ceremonies for just about anything you can think of. High Ceremony, that has more of a religious context to it IMHO and would be led by a Holy Person, Medicine Person, or religious leader. However there are little ceremonies we all do all the time. Ritual is the recipe used within the ceremony. It's serious focus and it serves to summon the specific energy/energies needed to accomplish a task.

WolfSpirit:
“High Ceremony, that has more of a religious context to it IMHO and would be led by a Holy Person, Medicine Person, or religious leader.”

This is what I had always assumed Ceremony meant, until I read the little book. I never realized that Ceremony could mean something else and that all of us probably do Ceremony in some way every day, without really realizing we are doing it. What I am trying to do in this thread, initially, is to ask people what they understand about the word Ceremony and then perhaps move on to explore what we might use Ceremony for other than the High Ceremony you speak of.

Mouse:
For those among us who do not have that book or are too familiar with the depth of these words... can we have a brief outline of the difference between ritual and ceremony as used this thread?

Earthwalker:
I would say ceremony is giving praise or honor to something or someone. It can be simple or complex.

SilverEagleDreamDancer: Here's the link to the book - The Book of Ceremonies There's a function where you can read just a bit of it too.

CinnamonMoon:
Briefly I consider ceremony to be the stages and steps used in conducting either honoring, celebration, or healing on some level. The ritual is the words and actions within a portion of the ceremony to summon and direct the energy/entities needed as stated above. An example: In High Ceremonial Magic the practitioner is going to draw a circle and mark it with sacred symbols to protect the area in which they are working. Once this is done the altar is set up and there will be stages marked. Candles lit, the elemental forces brought in through sprinkling consecrated salt water, lighting incense, and having earth represented in some fashion. After this is done the consecrated salt water, lighting incense, and having earth represented in some fashion. All elemental parts of the ceremony (set up) are in place and then perhaps a bell is run to signify the next stage, that of the ritual itself. The ritual is an incantation, spell, or some regulated method of summoning. After this is done the energy is released and the work concluded. Next is a thanking of the forces or entities involved and releasing them to their abodes. The altar is then taken down as the incense is allowed to burn out, the candles to burn down, and the circle is broken. In marriage the act of getting married is a ceremony. The words spoken are the ritual. The songs sung honor the ceremony and the couple. Prayers said are ritualized forms of asking for blessings. One is the overview (ceremony) the other the internal recipe (ritual). On a mundane level the meal is a ceremony of eating and the prayer or grace spoken prior to it is the ritual portion. A vision quest is a ceremony from start to finish and there are ritualized stages (4 as a rule: 1) the acceptance of the calling to quest while preparing the sacred space, 2) the purification (usually a sweat lodge and fasting) 3) seeking the vision, and 4) the assimilation.). Each stage has its own ritualized process and purpose in fulfilling the overall ceremony. A rite of passage of any sort is done in ceremony, the words spoken are the ritual portion.

Centering is a summoning ceremony, the words or images used are the ritual form. Grounding is a releasing ceremony, the words used or images conjured are the ritual form. Does that help?

WolfSpirit:
Earthwalker said: “I would say ceremony is giving praise or honor to something or someone. It can be simple or complex.” This is what I want to show that Ceremony does not have to be complex or deeply ritualized. Mouse asked the difference between the two types of ceremony. OK, I am not too familiar with High Ceremony in the Native Indian culture, but in the Christian culture, to me at least, Mass would be high Ceremony: as Cinn points out, as said by a priest, and nigh time prayers would be a simple ceremony that we all do. But there must be other Ceremonies that people undertake, like me standing in Mouse's garden Thanking Creator for the day, that we do not even realize are in fact Ceremony. To me there are many more, but before I start going into examples and what the book says in more detail, I want others in the community to express their thoughts.

SEDD, Thanks for the link, i would never have thought of that!

Cinn, Thanks for your input and for explaining the difference between ritual and ceremony! And also for explaining about the four elements in Ceremony: I didn't know that! What I am trying to do in this thread is to explain how learning came to me on this subject of simple ceremonies. It was a surprise to me to realize that stuff we do every day without that much thought can actually be described as simple ceremony: I had walked up and down the lawn maybe four or five times before realizing that I always walked back and forth on the same line in the lawn, realizing this I suddenly stopped. Standing there, at about 12oclock at night, I felt the need to be still for a moment. I then felt the need to open my arms out wide and look up into the stars. It felt so blissful! It felt free of any kind of "knowledge": just me and the stars. As I stood there, I could feel energy coming to me and a deep connection with not only my current guides and helpers, but with new guides and helpers who would be guiding me. I thanked the Universe and sent my Love out to the Universe. It felt like something pretty special had happened: I felt like I used to feel when I was a young boy and first started serving as an altar boy in the Christian Church (yep all my secrets are coming out now ), when all the ritual of the mass was a wonder to me. When I read the book, it seemed to be saying that what I had done that night on Mouse’s lawn was create Ceremony. So the purpose of this thread for me is to share this experience and the learning I received from it with the rest of the community: I think most people would understand High Ceremony or the more formal types of ceremony that they create for particular reasons, but how many of us realize that other things we do are actually Ceremony: It might be something we just "do", but to other members of the community it might be a means to attain a deeper relationship with Creator.

Mouse:
Hmm - okay... Am I correct in then seeing that I use showering as a form of ritual to get myself into a more ceremonial space? For instance, sleeping, in my experience, is a form of ceremony, and I tend to have a shower before going to bed, as a form of cleansing, removing the day before I enter the night. I finish my mundane activities, have a final smoke, walk through the house switching off lights, or picking up that last stray toy, perhaps put another load of laundry on... but it is all a part of gathering and bringing closure to the day - after which I shower and go to bed. Alternatively, upon waking, I need to have a little welcome back to the day ceremony. Part of that ceremony is going to the loo, having a cuppa, having a smoke, and then quietly opening myself and my senses to the new day. The rising sun, the breeze that touches my skin and awakens my hearing by singing through the trees, the birds who greet each other and sing to me and to the world around them... the taste of sun, wind, sometimes the taste of snow in the air or rain... then, when I feel my body is back in the world I walk in now (daytime reality), I center with the directions and then ground myself and state my intent for the day ahead. Which part of that would be ceremony and which would be ritual?

Unregistered Guest:
Ceremony in one sense to me is a gathering to celebrate, to mourn, to revere, etc.... Ritual is the part of the ceremony. It's the things done and said as part of the ceremony. Every morning I perform rituals. Feeding the livestock and watering them, letting the dogs out to play, greeting the cats with a smile and some friendly scratches. As the animals are eating I spread my arms wide, throw my head back, close my eyes and let out a howl. I thank Spirit for letting me greet the dawn and how much I look forward to doing Spirit's work.

CinnamonMoon:
The simple ceremony you did Wolfie, is tapping into walking your talk, seeing a need for living life in a spiritual way is a ceremony in itself. In that sense ceremony shows appreciation, it was ceremonious because it came from your spirit naturally and passed thought the heart into the world to celebrate that awareness. You didn't need the "ritual" to do that. It was simple and simple is very powerful. I'll back off on this and let others speak now.

WolfSpirit:
Cinn, Thanks for this! “it was ceremonious because it came from your spirit naturally and passed thought the heart into the world to celebrate that awareness.” This is the point I am trying to make, sometimes Spirit just moves us and we don't often realize that it is Ceremony, but it becomes something we do to celebrate our spirituality! What I am trying to find here is what other people have found and use.

Earthwalker:
Wolf, Isn't ceremony simply intent expressed, ritual the presentation of the intent repeated?

Marila:
this is what I learned from my Native American teachings:

Ritual: The procedure is the same since "the beginning of time" - this means it is not changed and only performed by trained people. Each changing will have an effect that may not be in the sense of the ritual. In this sense I participated in ritual but I did not perform it on my own. Ceremony: These are actions that are performed in changing steps and according to what is needed in that moment. It is also to be performed by "everyone". In this sense I am doing ceremonies - according what I get. I start with cleansing (smudging), then inviting the helpers and guides and the directions.... I give my intent... And then the ceremony starts... (I mostly go along with a certain structure that I prepared - but it may be that it changes during the ceremony - according to what is needed...) After that I close the ceremony, thanking the helpers and guides, too. It also may be that I get some "homework" to do (or my clients) - then the ceremony holds a certain action even after closing the ceremony itself. It also may happen that a ceremony unfolds without being "planned"... I love these joyful moments and gifts unfolding... :o)) This is in very short terms what I got. Ceremony is a beautiful help to work. Ritual - as I learned it and as I feel it - needs a deep understanding and training to be performed...

TerraMoon:
Greetings! To me, Ceremony is the intent. Ritual is the action. I wake in the morning intending to start my day. Getting up and getting to it is the action. Simple? Yes! Too simplistic? Not to me. Who do we do Ceremony for? Others? Ourselves? or Spirit? I feel that any Ceremony comes down to Spirit and me, the connection we have made, Heart to Heart . When Ceremony and Ritual are too strict it becomes a practiced action. Practiced actions don't always come from the Heart. IMHO! I have heard that Prayer should come from the heart and not a repetitive poem from a book. And yet that same person gets stuck on Ceremony do's and don'ts. To me Prayer is a form of Ceremony, thus both should be done from the heart.

WolfSpirit:
Ok I started to get a little confused here with all this talk of Rituals in Ceremonies! This reflects my understanding: “In marriage the act of getting married is a ceremony. The words spoken are the ritual.” The ritual here is of the Ceremony and this would be my take on the difference between the two: the Ceremony is the whole thing and the rituals are the “doing” bits. But then I thought a little harder, and realized that we could have ceremony amidst the rituals. Taking again the Ceremony of the Christian Mass (as one that most people will understand) the Mass is the Ceremony, and what goes on within that Ceremony, to me, has always been the ritualistic element. But when I think about it, the Breaking of Bread is a Ceremony within the Ceremony of the Mass. It’s like we sometimes have little "Ceremonies" within a larger "Ceremony", like Mouse’s “welcome back” Ceremony:

“I need to have a little welcome back to the day ceremony. Part of that ceremony is going to the loo, having a cuppa, having a smoke, and then quietly opening myself and my senses to the new day.”

One part of that "welcome back Ceremony”, having a cuppa, involves ritualistic elements: taking the cup, opening the coffee, putting a certain amount of coffee in the cup, flicking the switch on the kettle etc etc: these we do almost without thinking when making a cuppa for ourselves: they are ritualistic. So, despite initially feeling a little “confuddled” as Owl would say, on what is “ceremony” and what is "ritual", I think I agree with Cinn here:

“Briefly I consider ceremony to be the stages and steps used in conducting either honoring, celebration, or healing on some level. The ritual is the words and actions within a portion of the ceremony to summon and direct the energy/entities needed as stated above.”

Assuming that the overall act of honoring, celebration, or healing would also be called a “Ceremony”. But again any type of ceremony that involves ritual to me is more complex ceremony. And whilst I can see the value of Ritual Ceremony on a communal level, on a personal level, I have always mistrusted ritual, mainly because it is this that turned me away from religion: where I felt that those around me in the church often said the words/did the actions without any thought or feeling. Earthwalker said: “Isn't ceremony simply intent expressed, ritual the presentation of the intent repeated?”

I’m not sure Earthwalker, looking at this definition of ceremony, to me it would depend on the intent, or, more importantly, the feelings behind that intent: the easiest way I can demonstrate my answer is by quoting the parts of the book noted above that moved me (the quoted text being the important paras and the descriptions between: to explain the next quote where I have missed paras out):

“In the beginning, it (i.e. Totality: a realization that we share life simultaneously with all things in a Totality without beginning or without end) flowed through the primordial bloodstream of humankind. And long ago, whether through Ceremony or through simply gazing at the night sky, the First People became consciously aware of their place in the Wheel of Life. They recognized their connection to the vast subconscious, and to various dimensions of Time and Space and Spirit and Mystery, through the power of their conscious awareness, the urgings of their Original Instruction.”

The book then speaks of how connected our often long-forgotten fore-fathers were to the elements and the natural world, to songs, colors, instruments, and how the natural world and their ceremonies interacted:

“Times have changed, but certain elements of the human condition have not, No matter how civilized we humans have become, certain needs still flow through our Primordial blood. And many are now seeking to satisfy their need for Ceremony once again. But can we reconcile our sacred relationship to all things with the way we have chosen to live?”

The book then speaks of how easy it has become today to “buy” spiritual culture or to visit a sacred or holy site from that culture:

“To judge the right or wrong of all this or to criticize anyone does not serve the purpose or intention of this book. The heart knows what is true. These things may be good for some and bad for others, right for some and wrong for others, but one thing cannot be denied: certain elements of ceremony cannot be sold or purchased. The most critical of all these are the elements that emanate from a good heart, from the intentions of the good-hearted people that have been brought to that Time and Space of Ceremony and share a belief in the interrelationship of all things. And though anyone who chooses can purchase the conduits of ceremony, not everyone can enter into a ceremonial state of consciousness. To do this one must have a good heart, whether that heart is celebratory or joyous, or anguished and sad. The purity of the heart and the sincerity of intentions are the master facts; they are essential. They are vital, as is a conscious awareness of one’s relationship to all the things within the ceremony – for we enter into a ceremonial state of consciousness out of Love and reverence for the sacredness and the beauty and the power of life and life’s journey, no matter how grand or small that life may be, or how wonderful or difficult that road is to walk.”

From The Book of Ceremonies by Gabriel Horn. Two or three sentences shouted out to me:

“And long ago, whether through Ceremony or through simply gazing at the night sky, the First People became consciously aware of their place in the Wheel of Life. They recognized their connection to the vast subconscious,”

To me this is the feeling I got in Mouse’s back yard: I recognized in a whole new way the feeling of connection. I have had glimpses of this before: odd moments of pure bliss and joy, but this time it carried on for days within me: it’s still there every time I think about that connection or whenever, without thinking about it, it just pops into my mind: like when I see a friend smile who has had a hard time doing that of late.

“from the intentions of the good-hearted people that have been brought to that Time and Space of Ceremony”

And: “And though anyone who chooses can purchase the conduits of ceremony, not everyone can enter into a ceremonial state of consciousness.”

This said to me that whilst anyone can learn a ritual or learn to use a tool (i.e. through the application of intellect), not everyone can enter that state of Ceremonial Consciousness. Here, written in black and white was exactly what I had felt about religion, that had made me lose that connection in the first place! That feeling I had as a small boy when I first took started serving on the alter was what came back in Mouse’s back yard, and here it was confirmed! But this statement in particular also brought something else to mind: a person may not have the kind of intellectual mindset or the memory facility to be able to perform complex rituals or to use tools in a prescribed way: but if their heart is true they, probably more so than someone who sees things only from an intellectual perspective, can attain Ceremonial Consciousness. How many people here at SL have been held back in the past because they were afraid of “getting it wrong”. How many more true hearted “lurkers” would come forward now if they knew that this is all that is required to share their journey? On a more mundane level, most modern societies today believe that scholarly learning is more important than innate abilities. How many people suffer self-doubt needlessly because of this kind of scholarly conditioning? To quote Gabriel Horn again:

“Times have changed, but certain elements of the human condition have not. No matter how civilized we humans have become, certain needs still flow through our Primordial blood. And many are now seeking to satisfy their need for Ceremony once again.”

There will always be a need for more complex, ritualized group Ceremonies, but if indeed that need for Ceremony does exist, and with the virtual collapse of organized religion (at least in the UK), someone has a true heart, then any expression of that need must surely be valid?

“Isn't ceremony simply intent expressed,” If from a true heart Earthwalker, Yes, I agree, it is.

Earthwalker:
Wolf, I think the intent, and the simplicity and magnificence of ceremony can be found in these words by Chief Luther Standing Bear (Touch the Earth by T.C. McLuhan 1971). "The man who sat on the ground in his tipi meditating on life and its meaning, accepting the kindship of all creatures and acknowledging unity with the universe of things was infusing into his being the true essence of civilization. And when native man left off this form of development, his humanization was retarded in growth."

WolfSpirit:
Earthwalker's post said: “accepting the kindship of all creatures and acknowledging unity with the universe of things was infusing into his being the true essence of civilization” I read this a couple of times before I read it right: for some reason i kept reading "kinship" instead of "kindship", I'm not sure if that is what Standing Bear said and the "d" is a typo or if kindhship is correct? If kinship is correct this quote would describe how I felt that night in Mouse's yard and how I have felt since whenever I still myself: as if I could reach out and connect with all things: reach and connect with "Totality", as if all that could be imagined was coming to greet me in a single moment: an intense feeling of being home and peacefulness.

But that feeling requires no logical thought: it is almost an instinctive action rather than a ritual one, yet it seems far more powerful than any connection I have ever felt in meditation, in prayer or any other situation I have ever been in.

So getting back to my original point, and phrasing it in light of the statement in the last paragraph: what do other members do "instinctively" that feels ceremonious?

ImperviousChild:
Okay, I read this thread when it first started and was going to answer it... but forgot. It’s the whole attention span thing when sleepy. Okay, ceremony for me is the action(s) that use the energy gained from ritual(s) and move it into healing, continuation, returning, moving up, and ending (I think those are all the directions ) for the person(s) involved. It can be great or very minute. One is in a mindset of focus on the event taking place as the energy is being used and transformed for a greater good. Ritual is the steps one takes with an amount of focus and intent... whether it is engrossed in the steps or the mind is focused off someplace else... to gain the energy necessary to continue on; continuations. I guess the continuation is in ceremony, but does it always have to end in ceremony immediately or can rituals build up to eventually release the energy in the ceremony farther down the road? This I think can and does happen... but I'm not 100% sure. In either case, ritual and ceremony are hand in hand. I do rituals and ceremonies all the time, especially as a mother teaching her children to become self-sufficient individuals and participating members of the greater community. I also go through many rituals too as a mother, wife, daughter, friend, and individual person regardless how small, simple, highly detailed, and large; mundane and spiritual. Okay, that is all I can think of right and sorry if it sounds like "the nonsensical ravings of a lunatic mind." The girls fighting in the background and my stomach eating its way through my backbone... must find food... must find other energy outlets for children... concentration is faltering... PS....it has just occurred to me that ritual and ceremony when one is on the path of self-destruction... they don't lead to greater good for the individual and in this circle for those around them. Is ritual and ceremony neutral then until it is created by intent... okay now that I wrote that out, it seems a dumb question, but what do others think?

WolfSpirit:
ImperviousChild,

“Okay, ceremony for me is the action(s) that use the energy gained from ritual(s)” Ok, from my reading, to be able to perform more elaborate ceremonies (or even just to participate) a certain state of mind must be called upon. This state of "ceremonial consciousness", a certain focused intent, requires a lot of preparation. In the Old NA ways, a person might prepare for many months or longer say to attend a Sweat

Lodge, or to Quest or whatever. Now, the kind of simple ceremony I am talking about here is not that kind of ceremony, but I still think that a certain consciousness comes that moves us to enter ceremony. What do I mean by this? Well, just a feeling that there is a lot more "out there" than the mortal "I" a sort of humility that comes from the realization that we are a part of All That Is and being in communion with it. It's like a feeling of joy from "belonging", a thankfulness for that feeling is the best way I can describe it, but it can also come from a heartfelt sorrow and a desire to attain that feeling of Joy: like when you see the sun when you first wake in the morning and you feel connected in an indescribable way to yourself and to the sun and you just want to acknowledge that connection or when you are at your lowest ebb and you submit all your being to Creator. So to me the energy comes first: that ceremonial consciousness, and the ceremony is a means to send that "thankfulness" or that cry for help to the Universe or wherever it is needed.

“Is ritual and ceremony neutral then until it is created by intent.”

Cinn described the difference between ritual and ceremony earlier in the thread, and from that I would say the we "enter into" ceremony and "perform" ritual, but I may be wrong: that is just my perspective. I would be interested to hear what others think. Again, whilst I am only talking from my own perspective here, not from any particular learnt knowledge, I would say that the energy comes from intent, there is an intent to enter into ceremony, we enter from that state of "Ceremonial Consciousness", the energy does not come from the rituals. The rituals add to the energy of the intent through our focus on them: harnessing and directing the intent, but they are not, to me at least, the energy themselves, albeit that in more complex group ceremonies the rituals may invoke energies inherent within the ritual, but those are not the kind of ceremonies I am talking about here. I am talking about being in that state of consciousness where we are aware that we are more than the "I" of this mortal reality, and wishing to direct that intent somehow.

“It has just occurred to me that ritual and ceremony when one is on the path of self-destruction... they don't lead to greater good for the individual and in this circle for those around them”

I would say that the key factor is humility, without that then no, performing ritual cannot lead to greater good for the individual or the circle of those around them. Humility brings us to that sense of wonder when we look up at the sun as it rises; humility from feeling all our mortal beingness has been stripped to the point it feels like nothing worse can happen in our lives. If we enter ceremony or perform rituals from a sense of anger or from any other sense that is not humble supplication, I would imagine that the ceremony would intensify those negative feelings, eventually bringing us to the point where it feels like our lives have reached rock bottom: the humility of crying out for help. I would be interested to hear what others think on your question though: this is just my perspective at this time!

ImperviousChild:
Wolfie! I am going to write more at a later time when I have more time. I had read your reply and re-read my post and realized that I really, really, was distracted and probably should have posted at a different time I did not mean to say that energy for ceremony or ritual only comes when one is preforming a ritual. Energy can be created with just a thought and is magnified with intent and action, hence the reason we have a need to channel it through many methods and to ground ourselves by the end of the day, or throughout the day for various reasons. I also realized that I did not mention how ceremony is created by one's intent, mindset and focus to bring one closer to All That Is, regardless of the size of the ceremony. Ceremony takes the energy that there is and gathers more within its process from it's beginning to its end. and it's fulfillment for those involved within. Okay, now I must go and jump-start my brain to write something back that is a better example of my nonsensical ravings I am really hoping for more thoughts from others on this. I can't get enough of other people's take on topics such as this. It is the different walks of life, different areas within the whole that we are all in that makes conversation on this and other topics so fascinating!

EaglesHand:
I tend to think of ceremony as a gathering of energy from all of those present and focusing that energy on one common intention. And as has been said here before, ritual is the format by which the energy is collected and focused. I guess, for me the metaphor I'd use is that ritual is the skeleton, the bones that give shape, and ceremony is the body-the other aspect of the larger process that makes the ritual take shape. While we can do ceremony by ourselves and follow the process of a ritual, it becomes more intense and more enriched when done with a group of people. The large ceremonies I have participated in have all had one person called an Intercessor who gathers the energies from all participants and becomes the lens through which the energies are focused on the intention. And who sends the energies and intention out to Spirit. When I do ceremony and ritual by myself it feels very good and I know my intention is heard - and yet it is so much more powerful when done in a group.

Minna:
This is interesting reading. Thanks, Wolfie and everybody. I've never been very good with formal ceremonies. I am completely unable to even follow a recipe with adding something of my own in. I have even tried to just - go. by. the. recipe. Well, somewhere a strange and overwhelming compulsion takes me over and I just have to do something of my own in that recipe. So I'm not good at formal ceremonies. However, it seems that all my life I've conducted impromptu ceremonies. Some of you might remember when I had a friend who was preparing to cross over this spring and I feasted to her Spirit at my dining table. To me this was a ceremony. Another time, years ago I found a picture of myself when I felt that I looked like a victim. I ceremoniously burned this picture and threw the ashes in an inlet behind our motel by the Corpus Christi, Texas bay. This was another ceremony.

My husband and I have sat at our little copper fire bowl out to the side of our house and spoken our cares to throw into the fire. It actually flared up with some of them. Again, to me this was a ceremony. Oddly enough when I am smudging our home, this feels like a ritual. Maybe this is because there are particular things I do and say that involve creating this ceremony? I don't know what I call it the times when all of a sudden I am just bowled over by Connection, by Grace. To me, it's just when I am lucky enough to have my 'pipes open' for a moment. Ok - little thoughts.

 

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